"The vile women are for vile men and vile men are for vile women (also) and the good women are for good men and good men are for good women (also). They (who accused) was clean from what is alleged by them (who accused's). For them forgiveness and who noble fortune (heaven)." (QS. 24 : 26)
- One of the problems people in the field of muamalah discussed in detail in the Quran is the problem of #family
- Problem of #family here including marriage, inheritance, etc.. And this is a major concern in teaching of Islam
- #family is a very important element in life. Due one of to the success and the good of a society depends on the success of #family
- How good or bad the public, depending on whether its good or bad #families who are part of the community
- Education in a good #family should be started early, applied to our children. This is in accordance with QS. 31 : 17
- "O my son, be steadfast in prayer, command the man do the good work and forbid them from unjust deeds.. #family
- ..and have patience with what happened to you. Verily in this is including things who are required by God. "(QS. 31 : 17) #family
- QS. 31 : 17 signaled us to lead children from childhood to be a superior generation. #family
- Generation who pious and be part of the process 'amar ma'ruf nahi munkar' (invites to goodness, to prevent the unjustness) #family
- So that our children become successful human beings, not just for themselves, but also a success for the people #family
- Our children must be directed also that in the da'wah, it will definitely get a lot of challenges #family
- #family is a place of education, place to give an example and paragon role, not merely a place to meet with parents and children
- So the #families have a very important role in the process development of community
- This already deservedly when the success of a society is determined by the success of the #family
- This is the primary point that want to be distracted by secular thinking. Whereas #family has a social function that is so important
- Related with #mate problem, human already definitely had a #mate. This is in accordance with QS. Yasin : 36 & QS. Ar-Rum : 21 #family
- "And among His signs is His is He created for you wives of your own kind .." (QS. 30 21) #family #mate
- "Glory to God who has created all the pairs, both of what is grown by the earth.. #family #mate
- ..and from themselves and from what they do not knowing." (QS. 36 : 36) #family #mate
- Good woman is generally paired with good man also, and vice versa. This was stated repeatedly #family #mate
- This shows how important the husband and wife who have one idea, one thought and one vision. #family #mate
- Then the for those who are not married yet, better worthy formerly yourself to receive the best #mate #family
- Because problem of #mate, beside due to human effort, is also dominated by the power of Allah SWT #family
- If you want to get a good future husband, be a good future wife, and vice versa #family #mate
- Such as personality of Siti Aishah ra., she may not be the wife of Prophet Muhammad, if do not possess the personality which exceptional. #family #mate
- For the parents who wants to get a good son / daughter in-law, so be educate our children with good formerly. #family #mate
- In the hadith of Bukhari mentioned that in choosing a wife, a man decided based on 4 things. #family #mate
- First, because of his wealth. Second, because of his descendants. Third, because of her beauty. Fourth, because of his religion. #family #mate
- Primary to select because of her religion, then surely you will benefit. #family #mate
- The analogy, religion is the number 1, while beauty, lineage, and property is 0. #family #mate
- Beauty, wealth and descendant would be meaningless without being accompanied by religion and good morals. #family #mate
- Because it's all just be worth 000. Thirdly it would be worth if there is number 1 in front of the number 000. #family #mate
- If we love our children, then marriage because of religion was the one who should take precedence. #family #mate
- What if the candidates of different religions? First made Islam formerly, provide education about Islam, then marry. #family #mate
- So pray from now to ask a #mate who has the good of religion and good morals. #family
- For parents, pray also that #mate of our children are blessed by Allah SWT. #family
- "If you have a child girl and come a man who you like his religious and his morals.. #family #mate
- ..so receive him, if not, then there will be fitnah of the world. "(Al-Hadith) #family #mate
- Two methods of selecting #mate in Islam is implement istikharah prayer and deliberation. #family
- Istikharah prayers for ask for God's guidance. Musyarawah meant to discuss and find information about the candidate. #family #mate
- Looking for a #mate without dating, because dating is completely false, and courting closer to adultery. #family
- So parents must provide examples and guidance on how children choose the right #mate in Islam. #family
- so that all processes run in accordance with what Allah swt wills and bless over us. #family #mate
- Another lesson from QS. An-Nur: 26 is there are 3 people in the Al-Quran cleared of defamation. #family
- 3 people are Siti Aishah, the Prophet Yusuf (QS. 12 : 51-52), and Siti Maryam (QS 19 : 27-28). #family
- This shown that a good person if maligned, then God himself will clean it up. #family
- Thus, lecture of twitter of interpretation QS. An-Nu r: 26 on #alhijri about #family and #mate. May be useful for us all.
Hopefully for those who are not married yet, are given the best #mate, good in religious and moral, and always blessed by Allah SWT. #family
May all our #family become #family which sakinah ma wahdah wa rahman. aamiin yaa rabbal alamin. Wallahu'alam bi ash shawwab
