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~Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh~
~Bismillahirahmanirahiim~

Advice For Men ~ #OetjiK


  • The culmination of the anger of a woman is silent, because she felt his voice was no longer heard by, so better she silent and do of letting.
  • It is more painfully silenced by the women we love than she was nag, because when women is still nag, it signified she still cares for us and make us better in life that more thoughtful.
  • Women may not nag if we are able to provide the needs of born-inner, so similar to traffic signs, when women nag then it has a yellow light that we soon must passed the trap of laziness red light, whereas green light to lead towards successful.
  • Do not interpret the complaints of women as like as bad luck, that's the best gift given by Allah as a man's nature awareness efforts as a priests in households that should be one level higher in terms of stability mindset and patience.
  • Be happy because there is a woman who are always faithful beside you, that is still providing his voice to admonish you when in need, that is what you want with her while selecting a companion of life that is mutually enhance life.
  • Believe it, a woman as a wife want her husband as her priest continues to grow in all things, because she did not want to go beyond over her priest within her household, so when she saw there is a shortage for in her husband, she felt the need to take the policy as a reminder before his failure.
  • Therefore, to the men whose became the husband, let's think adults that we are not only responsible for directing women to be better, but the women also have the right to encourage herself with its own way and not infrequently through a fussiness, so that men feel slapped in his pride, for then more focus arrange future.

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A Man with Four Wives ~ #OetjiK

First Wife     :  Already Old age and mediocre, usually ignored.
Second Wife  : Rather saucy, a little unnoticed.
Third Wife    : Quite pretty and fairly unnoticed
Fourth Wife  : Very cute, very noticed, praised and preferred

Time passed so quickly and it was time for the man (Husband) is near to dying, then the husband was summoning whole of his wife (all of his four wife).

The husband summoning Fourth Wife of most pretty and asked, "Will you come with me to the grave?"
Fourth Wife of most pretty replied, "I'm sorry, only to stay here I am along with you."

When summoning Third Wife and the husband asked the same thing, and she replied, "Sorry, I'm just going to take you up until in the morgue and the farthest up at the funeral home."

When summoning Second Wife then the husband asked the same thing, and she replied, "Well, I'll keep you company but only up to the grave, after then goodbye."

The husband was very disappointed to hear the answers from all his third wives. But this is life and he was dying now.

Then the husband summoning his First Wife and asked the same thing, and he did not think that First Wife would answer, "I will accompany you wherever you go and I will always be there for you ..."

Who are the First to the Fourth Wife?

Fourth Wife is a ~Treasure and Riches~. They will leave our bodies when we die instantly.
Third Wife are our ~Friends~. They will only usher your body, until in burial.
Second Wife is our ~Family, Relatives and Close Friends~They will lead us to be buried, and will leave us after we put the bodies in the grave and covered with soil.
First Wife is our ~Actions and Deeds~ as long as we live in a world. Because whatever a man sows, that shall he also reap.

Do lots of good deeds as long as we are alive in this world, because nothing loss happening to do good deeds for others and our religion, Islam.

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Kekuatan Kesabaran ~ #AlifMagz #MQuraishShihab ~ #OetjiK

  • Manusia diciptakan dengan hawa nafsu yang memunculkan bermacam hasrat dan keinginan yang menuntut untuk dipenuhi.
  • Kesabaran merupakan kekuatan dalam mengendalikan hawa nafsu tersebut,...
  • ...sehingga keinginan yang muncul darinya bisa dipenuhi sesuai dengan porsinya, tanpa menimbulkan kerusakan dan kerugian.
  • Dengan kata lain, bersabar adalah tindakan merelakan kepuasan saat ini untuk mencapai sesuatu yang lebih baik.

Kutipan-Kutipan tentang #Sabar ~ #OetjiK


  • Tidak ada ruginya bersabar, dan tidak ada untungnya meratapi nasib. Kematian bukanlah suatu beban dari kejadian sebelumnya di dunia, sebab yang lebih parah dari kematian adalah kehidupan di akhirat nanti. Ingatlah selalu kisah wafatnya Rasulullah, sehingga kesedihan akan berkurang. ~ #AbuBakar
  • Bersabarlah.. sebab semua peristiwa sulit sebelumnya akan menjadi lebih ringan dan mudah dijalani. ~ #Saadi
  • Saat saya mengatakan beberapa minggu yang lalu bahwa orang-orang kami akan makan minyak goreng dan zaitun, jika perlu, maka saya tidak bermaksud bahwa kami memilikinya dan benar-benar hanya akan minyak dan buah zaitun. Namun yang saya maksudkan dalam kalimat tersebut adalah bahwa orang-orang Palestina memiliki kesabaran yang cukup tinggi untuk bisa bertahan dalam situasi sulit saat ini. Rakyat Palestina lebih suka memperjuangkan kemerdekaan dan hak nasional Palestina meskipun dalam kondisi tanpa makanan tertentu. ~ #IsmailHaniyeh

Bersabarlah.... ~ #OetjiK

Bersabarlah dalam ketaatan kepada Rabbmu..
Bersabarlah dalam menjauhi larangan-Nya..
Bersabarlah dari takdir yang engkau benci..
karena hakekat hidupmu adalah hijrah, perpindahan dari satu ujian ke ujian berikutnya, dan baik dan buruk yang akan menjadikanmu takwa.
Pelantikan kelulusanmu adalah kematian.


 وَ أَمَّا مَنْ خافَ مَقامَ رَبِّهِ وَ نَهَى النَّفْسَ عَنِ الْهَوى

فَإِنَّ الْجَنَّةَ هِيَ الْمَأْوى

"Dan adapun orang- orang yang takut kepada kebesaran Tuhannya 
dan menahan diri dari keinginan hawa nafsunya;
maka sesungguhnya surgalah tempat tinggalnya.
~ An Nazi'at 40-41 ~

Sungguh, Rabbmu tidaklah pernah mengecewakanmu, menzalimimu engkau hanyalah di kecewakan oleh angan-anganmu, keinginan-keinginanmu, aturan mainmu sendiri.

Maka berangan-anganlah yang benar, 
Berangan-anganlah tentang surga sesuai aturan dan koridor-Nya dan jadikanlah barang berharga milikmu di jalan dalam meraih anganmu
Niscaya ia abadi.


ما عِنْدَكُمْ يَنْفَدُ وَ ما عِنْدَ اللَّهِ باقٍ 

وَ لَنَجْزِيَنَّ الَّذينَ صَبَرُوا أَجْرَهُمْ بِأَحْسَنِ ما كانُوا يَعْمَلُونَ



"Apa yang di sisimu akan lenyap, dan apa yang ada di sisi Allah adalah kekal. 
Dan sesungguhnya Kami akan memberi balasan kepada orang- orang yang sabar dengan pahala yang lebih baik dari apa yang telah mereka kerjakan."
~ An Nahl 96 ~

Dan jadikanlah engkau bermanfaat bagi dirimu dan hamba Allah lainnya,
jadilah sebagaimana sebuah pohon yang mana manusia melemparinya, tapi tetap pohon itu memberikan buahnya.
Semoga Rabbmu merahmatimu.


وَ مَنْ أَحْسَنُ قَوْلاً مِمَّنْ دَعا إِلَى اللَّهِ وَ عَمِلَ صالِحاً وَ قالَ إِنَّني‏ مِنَ الْمُسْلِمينَ


"Siapakah yang lebih baik perkataannya daripada orang yang menyeru kepada Allah, mengerjakan amal yang saleh dan berkata:
"Sesungguhnya aku termasuk orang- orang yang berserah diri."
~ Fushilat 33 ~

Jika engkau jujur dan berpegang teguh padaNya,
Niscaya benar jawabanmu.
Karena kejujuran adalah pedang Rabbmu yang ada di muka bumi,
Tidaklah ia di letakkan di atas sesuatu melainkan ia memotongnya,
Maka jujurlah dalam hal keimananmu,
Jujur dalam Hidupmu akan memenangkanmu.


وَ لَيَنْصُرَنَّ اللَّهُ مَنْ يَنْصُرُهُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَقَوِيٌّ عَزيزٌ

"Sesungguhnya Allah pasti menolong orang yang menolong agamanya. 
Sesungguhnya Allah benar benar Maha Kuat lagi Maha Perkasa." 
~ Al-Hajj 40 ~

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